Forgive Yourself!

What’s regret? In my words regret basically means , you imagined a certain situation and it didn’t go that way so you feel guilty and live with a regret of not doing the right thing at the right time. Listen, we’re all humans and humans make mistakes and it’s completely fine . If you didn’t made the right move then make it now. It’s about taking lessons from your mistakes rather feeling guilty about them and Living with a regret for the rest of your life. Because what had to happen has happened, the damage has been made and you can’t undo those things , unfortunately but what you can do is learn from it and not repeat that in the future. For example you cheated on someone? Ya your partner has felt what they had to you can’t change it, what you can do is be loyal with the next one! It’s about learning from your mistakes. Because if you keep repeating your mistakes there’s no point of having that regret or guilt. Cause you did nothing to make it better. Life doesn’t stop with one wrong step but it definitely gets worsen if you keep taking that same step. So try to live with least regrets possible because regrets and overthinking can make you hollow from the inside. If you have any regrets right now. Think about it, think where did you go wrong and Never do that thing again. We need to forgive ourselves. We need to tell ourselves that it’s okay if I did something wrong I won’t do it again. Don’t be so harsh on yourself don’t let the guilt take over. I don’t know if I was really able to explain what I meant but if you’ve read this far I hope you’ll think about it and give yourself another chance to be better and brave. Because right now a lot of you hate yourself for doing something wrong in the past. But you need to know that there’s always GOOD IN BAD AND BAD IN GOOD.

Now some of you will say that there are things that you’re too late to fix. For example a friend of mine lost his  grandmother the day he had an argument with her and it’s his worst memory till date. He still has that guilt that after a heated argument she passed away. Can he bring her back? No. But what he does is show utmost love and importance to the rest of his family and makes sure that they know he loves them. So if you have hurt someone in the past treat them good till they’re with you.  Because you don’t know what will happen 5 minutes from now. Know the  importance of the time and the life you have be thankful and be grateful. Tell your parents your friends the people you love tell them how important they are. So that god forbib if they’re gone you won’t have the guilt of not keeping them happy. Check on the people you love ask them if they’re really okay. Make them comfortable enough so that they know if something happens they have your shoulder to cry on. Life is too short to have regrets and be guilty. Live your life, because you deserve to be happy.  ‘Living a life with no regrets’ is overrated as EVERY SINGLE HUMAN BEING on this planet has at least one regret if not more. Life is full of uncertainty.  So put your life under a microscope and figure out what are the things that you regret not doing and what are the things that you would like to do from now on and just do them. Have feelings for a crush? Confess to them. Even if you get rejected or friend-zoned, at least you’ll never beat yourself up with ‘What could have been!’. This applies to every single situation. Make peace with the things you didn’t do in the past as it’s the past and you can’t change it. Even if you did, you wouldn’t be here right where you are now. So be thankful and move on from that.