Are we afraid of change?

What I’m about to write today, some people may have already read if they have been following me on Instagram. I posted this blog few months ago on my Instagram as a caption to a picture, and this is what boosted my confidence to start my own blog. So here’s what I have to say to you today..

Change. Something we all are afraid of. It’s that one thing that can either make us or break us. Change is a part of life.Everything thing in this universe changes with time. Be it feelings. Be it anxiety. Be it our friends and family. Time changes everything and there’s nothing we can do about it. One complain we all have with others is that they’ve changed , they’re not the same as they were in the past. How can that be possible. we are all in a physically and emotionally growing world. Every other day something or the other is happening in everybody’s life. And these small happenings brings a change and it’s natural. Because we all learn something from our daily experiences be it positive or negative . Every experience leaves an impact in our lives . Fake friends makes a person doubt the real friends. Betrayal in relationship makes it hard to believe any other person. Cold relationship with parents builds a forever gap between them. These are a few things that changed me and it changed me for the better. I’m not a person who will come up to you and tell you how much you mean to me even though you guys mean the world to me.  But I’m really bad at expressing myself. I know I don’t share everything that’s been happening with me because I feel safer keeping few things to myself. And that’s not how i was . I use to share every single thing that used to happen. But past experiences have made me this way and that’s why whenever my heart feels heavy I cry for sometime listen to music and I’m all good. The past has taught me that the only person you can and should rely on is yourself. And that’s how it works. I might have got some negative changes too and I’m trying to get over them. You just gotta wait.
So rather telling your mates or parents or anyone for that matter that they’ve changed. Try to accept them and help them to get over the negative changes that  they might have got by a past experience. Help them believe that the entire world is not like that. Not every person is going to hurt you some are there to help you heal and accept the scars you’ve got from the past and move on.

Be mature enough to accept the reality and learn to live with it and embrace it. Because experiences won’t stop coming your way they always have impacted the way you react,think or preach. And they will. Please work on that deep connection with your soul, be friends with yourself learn to be by yourself. And the day you’ve learnt how to be by yourself you won’t be affected by others. There are some people whose change will always pinch you that is your spouse, guardian etc. All you gotta think is if that change is making them better or worse. If it’s a good Change good for them but if it’s a bad change tell them right away and then it’s their decision what they wanna do about it.

Because we can’t cantrol anybody’s life apart from our own lives. So focus on yourself and be good to others. Lastly stay home stay safe. And take care of yourself ❤️